Arkansas Smashers Chat

[Strong Badam]

yea its easy enough to get laid but like... i want something more than that lol. it's just as hard if not harder to find someone. the main thing i like tho is that guys tend to be a lot more straightforward about their intentions. im so glad i don't have to deal with the mindgames some chicks use anymore LMAO i hated that

i might already have a room but how much would it cost?

 

[Yo$himan]

pfft, it's worse for the gays, less gays than girls lol.

Really screwed up opening up again and dating rachel. Now loneliness is so much heavier on me, should have just held on to my memories until i finished school and then tried to date someone.

can't believe i'm even saying these words, but i hate life right now.

Dude, your life is like an open highway.
I'm telling you to do it your way.
You need to live it while you're alive.
Because, it's your life.

Spoiler

 

[Vts]

this highway has bumps and cops that make it suck sometimes ><

I could be gay if the sex and kissing weren't involved lol the just bros hanging out :D

 

[arbustos]

i hate life right now.

Listen to music and wash it out of your system. Don't be a woman!

yeah gay's have it super rough.

nice word choice

im so glad i don't have to deal with the mindgames some chicks use anymore LMAO i hated that

if a guy's confusion and embarrassment are high, he'll be easier to catch

it's basic game theory dude


****ing women

 

[Vts]

first songs on pandora are i miss you by blink 182 and where'd you go by fort minor so it didn't work.

instead i told rachel i hate her guts, and just released how i really felt.

so pretty much over her.

edit- oh i'll let you read the texts, i don't think i've ever let this loose on any body, think i ended the friendship also. good chance lol, oh well if a girl doesn't want to put effort when the guy does **** them.

 

[arbustos]

uhhhh

damn

 

[Strong Badam]

i wish i could get over someone like that
;(

 

[Vts]

Well it was ex i was talking to again, and now looking back it brought me happiness but it also made me super sad more often and how i can see what one side dating is.

guess i can repost the texts.

edit- (text number 1) Your so immature and don't know how to open up you keep other at bay yet you tease them with friendliness , i hated how i was always hated that you hung out with other people when we were both off and i could only se you when you wanted to see me, i gave you my time and **** while you pushed it away and said no while givin a ****ty excuse, you made me sad when you didn't open up and kept your personal life to yourself, i ****ing hated how i always put effort and you didn't do ****. GD it to hell Your ****ing selfish. wow i feel really good now.

edit-(text 2 last text)- btw i'm not done. Your still a kid, i gave so much and you returned so little, i'm ****ing stupid for even thinking a child could understand what a real relationship was and how both sides makes sacrifices. ok i'm done, return fire if you want i welcome it.

no return texts yet, think i pissed her off or made her cry either works for me right now

 

[Yo$himan]

LOL, you stay away from these problems by not dating kids dude. Jailbait is terrible.

 

[Vts]

LOL, you stay away from these problems by not dating kids dude. Jailbait is terrible.

yeah, last time i date anyone below 21 again, gotta have standards i guess ;D

 

[G. Vice]

Firstly, Strongbad I didn't know you were gay.

Second, VTS...wow. So much rage bro. You're really young, don't worry about girls for a while and take a little while for them and yourself to get a little age on you. Age really helps relationships.

Third, Arby your comment about nice word choice on VTS statement on "gays having it rough" made me LOL.

I miss smash :/

 

[arbustos]

Soon, soon we shall play. I will polish this rusted rusty so he may dazzle once more!!

Look at this chorus:

Hold on, I'm calling
Calling back to the ball
And we'll dazzle them all, hold on

Gotta be my theme song.

 

[chamberlin]

just going to make every girl a friend unless they want a relationship

This is EXTREMELY wise. I started doing this and it was one of the things that made my life SOOO much easier. Find girls, any girls you want to be around, and be their friend. You will experience a lot of personal growth this way, and your understanding of women will skyrocket. This will also help you determine what you really want out of a woman in terms of a serious relationship. By doing this you will get better with women and more women will want to have relationships with you (because you are in fact growing and getting better).

Also, don't start dating every woman who has an interest in you right away (as tempting as this may be). One thing that I've learned that separates the women who love you from the "players" is that they will show actual effort. If a woman shows you effort, match it and take turns raising the bar until you feel that she (and you) are not playing games and actually ready for something serious. Women who are actually in love with you won't play games and will put forth a lot of effort.

you stay away from these problems by not dating kids

I agree with this... Seeing nonsensical texts like you just posted seems very familiar of extremely immature women I've known. As far as a relational standpoint is concerned, they aren't ready to be in a serious relationship. These are girls(emotionally, psychologically), not women quite yet. Maturity isn't really an age factor as it is a state of mind.

*edit* I also agree with Gvice in that relationships get easier as you get older. Both you and women tend to get a little more mature and things seem a lot easier.

 

[arbustos]

Maturity isn't really an age factor as it is a state of mind.

So many people don't get this.

 

[G. Vice]

Clay, you seem so much wiser than you did even a year ago. I remember living with you at home and hearing all the stories, and how "well" things were going relationship wise, when I could see from a mile away how they weren't going at all.

Seriously, words to the wise fellas, Chamberlin's on it.

 

[chamberlin]

So many people don't get this.

I realize I sort of contradicted myself by saying that and then saying that it gets easier as you get older.

To clarify, it does get easier as you get older... most likely. You are MUCH more likely to find a mature women at the age of 28 than you will at 19. However I've seen 50 year old women who act like they're about 13...

 

[chamberlin]

Clay, you seem so much wiser than you did even a year ago. I remember living with you at home and hearing all the stories, and how "well" things were going relationship wise, when I could see from a mile away how they weren't going at all.

This is true... It's super easy to get tunnel visioned and not see things clearly... But then again, according to my old thinking, things were going well :/

There has been much growth and yet more growth yet to be done.

 

[G. Vice]

As a rule, yes age usually helps. Most people do tend to mature with age, and both male and female parties begin to see things more clearly when they see their age going up and realize that they won't be young forever and that at some point games aren't leading anywhere meaningful.

However, you're right. Some 35-40 yr old women can't come to grips that they are getting older, and they try to be a friend to their high school kids instead of being a mother. Problems just waiting to happen.

 

[arbustos]

idk what you're talking about my mom is my best frand

My four year old niece is more mature than her ~25 year old mother. Yeah maturity comes with age, but it's not an exclusive or linear relationship. Too many people think that, and it leads to stereotypes and respect issues on both sides of the age gap.

 

[G. Vice]

Arby, what do you think of Devour 3 having this song for the credits?

Not the whole song, but I would definitely like for the "kumite" part to be in the credits.

Starting about 50 seconds.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYLOGDT4VEk

 

[chamberlin]

My parents are in their mid-late 60s now and it feels like a different situation because it seems like my mother is depending on me instead. I've had great women from the church step in and be my mother by giving me love, sound advice, words of correction, etc, and I'm EXTREMELY grateful for that. Jesus said "For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.", and I've found that this statement is true. God's grace is sufficient yet he is able to meet any need we have. Pretty cool stuff.

 

[arbustos]

Arby, what do you think of Devour 3 having this song for the credits?

Not the whole song, but I would definitely like for the "kumite" part to be in the credits.

Starting about 50 seconds.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYLOGDT4VEk

Ouch, I just got slapped by the 80s.

Weeeell if you want to I guess.

 

[Vts]

Yeah, thanks for the advice maturity really is just a mindset and age doesn't matter, hell i've met girls more mature than me who are 16-17. I need not to take my parent's dating as me doing something wrong, my mom dated my dad at 18 and married him at 19. But from what my mom said she was about 10 times mature than any girl that she knew.

yeah i'm friends with a lot of girls but non that really hang out with :S, i'm just going to take a break from women for few months so I can improve my smash skills and beat you all :D.

 

[arbustos]

Lol stop comparing yourself to your parents. They are most certainly a special case.

 

[Strong Badam]

Vts: **** *****es get money

Firstly, Strongbad I didn't know you were gay.

I was closeted until recently.
Plus it's not that obvious in person except around certain people ^_~

 

[chamberlin]

Lol stop comparing yourself to your parents. They are most certainly a special case.

Like my parents who met each other and three weeks later got married... and all with no wedding or engagement ring.

Special case indeed.

 

[G. Vice]

I can improve my smash skills and beat you all :D.

VTS, I do believe you're suffering from a girl induced psychotic break and have become delusional.

 

[arbustos]

Girl-induced psychosis or GIP is one of the more curious illnesses of our time...

When we go to Apex, you better not be thinking about any girls except the ones we see on the trip (and G.Vice's mom because I know she's special to you).

 

[Vts]

VTS, I do believe you're suffering from a girl induced psychotic break and have become delusional.

got the hand down 90% on falcon/fox/ganon/marth/peach still mess up but my controller is almost broke in to where i want it. Today and tomorrow will be days of

Girl-induced psychosis or GIP is one of the more curious illnesses of our time...

When we go to Apex, you better not be thinking about any girls except the ones we see on the trip (and G.Vice's mom because I know she's special to you).

i'll be more focused on my games than anything else, i will get out of first round of pools even if i have to wobble.

peef mode chain grabs and gayness go!

 

[Wretched]

Wait
what
strongbad is what
gay
what

 

[Yo$himan]

Ouch, I just got slapped by the 80s.

Weeeell if you want to I guess.

The 80s tend to do that.

 

[The March Hare]

Hey strongbad, you need teammate?

Cause somebody's all alone without one. :'(

The somebody's me by the way. Case you were wondering.

 

[G. Vice]

Hey strongbad, you need teammate?

Cause somebody's all alone without one. :'(

The somebody's me by the way. Case you were wondering.

Strongbad, this is his way of coming on to you

 

[Vts]

Since i'm not going to put much effort into girl right now it has me thinking about my video game(s) i wanna make.

just need to test some ideas out and see if people think it's stupid or the works would be dumb

 

[Seifersythe]

I'm all for brainstorming.

 

[arbustos]

And so Strongbad became the accepted spelling that day.

 

[Vts]

And so Strongbad became the accepted spelling that day.

people just don't know arby, also do you get what my avatar is now?

 

[Yo$himan]

your avatar is a bowl!

 

[arbustos]

I thought it was a petunia.

 

[The March Hare]

Strongbad, this is his way of coming on to you

Vice, you know you're the only one for me.

But seriously, kind of want a teammate. Jason not going to apex leaves me one tournament short that I'll be playing in (and winning ).