When you cant help anyone with anything but you really want to? I always want to help my friends with drama to a point where if i dont or cant i blame myself for being a jerk. I try and try. It's especially bad cause right now all my friends have s*** happening to them. I cant help any of them, not one. I cant even help myself now (Im sick, Im tired, and I have to help others first). Its killing me. and everyones burdens are making me more depressed.
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- Thread starter Ash Hol
- Start date
Silent_Return
Smash Rookie
- Joined
- Sep 11, 2007
- Messages
- 4
Ash I feel the exact same way. I've screwed up a few of my friend's life and just want to fix it, but I can't. I haven't been able to eat or sleep as much lately. I just wish I could go back in time or something.
Sometimes the most important thing you can do for a person is just listen. Also, don't forget to believe in them.
^ I agree. Most of the time (from experience) they don't want a solution, they just want someone who will listen to them.
voittaa711
Smash Journeyman
Listen...and take a psychologists stand on the situation...
ask questions like
What do you think you should do about it?
How do you feel about that?
never tell someone what they should or should not do. let them discover that themselves.
ask questions like
What do you think you should do about it?
How do you feel about that?
never tell someone what they should or should not do. let them discover that themselves.
Red Exodus
Smash Master
I've never had this problem. Must feel awful though.
AsILayDying
Smash Apprentice
yes it sucks...
recently a friend i thought he tried to touch my gfs boobs =( whick he wasnt even thinking about but i was kinda pissed to i kinda hit him and push him against a wall and then next day hes got a broken ankle makes me feel so terrible and he just wont understand...
recently a friend i thought he tried to touch my gfs boobs =( whick he wasnt even thinking about but i was kinda pissed to i kinda hit him and push him against a wall and then next day hes got a broken ankle makes me feel so terrible and he just wont understand...
-Kazman-
Smash Journeyman
I\'d suggest finding someone who could help them out rather then beating yourself up trying to be able to do it, better not to force yourself and end up giving costly advice to someone you care about.