Hi, I'm a new smasher. I've never been to a tournament yet

Anyway, I'm curious about the rules concerning picking stages. I have a couple of questions:
1. Does it matter who starts the stage striking?
2. After the first match the winner bans a stage. Is this stage banned for the rest of the match or just for that game?
3. Who can counterpick and when?
4. What is counterpicking?:D
Wow, so many straight up wrong answers in this thread...
1. It can. There are some advantages and disadvantages to both sides. Striking first means you also get to strike last, but whatever stage you strike at the beginning may give you overall strategy away to your opponent. For instance, a Fox that begins the striking process by striking YS vs. Peach is probably going to play much campier than a Fox that strikes DL first. In a somewhat similar fashion, if there is one stage that the player/character is considered really bad on, you will often see the same stage being banned all the time. Falcon players almost always strike FoD, so them striking first is a pretty good advantage. Their strike of FoD doesn't tell you much about what their gameplan or style may entail. Most of the time, however, each player has two stages they really don't want to play on and the fifth stage is what is struck to. I would say this is how at least 90% of stage strikes go, but it could be higher or lower based on what characters/stages you use.
2. Yes, it is banned for the rest of the set. The MBR Recommended Ruleset only uses bans in bo3s however, so it ends up not mattering if that's the ruleset you are using. If your TO is using a different ruleset, a ban is assumed to last for the entire set and cannot be changed unless stated otherwise.
3. and 4. There are both character counterpicks and stage counterpicks, and either (or both) can happen any time after the first game. The order of stage/character selection is usually as follows:
- Winner bans a stage (this step is skipped if the player has already banned a stage during the set)
- Loser chooses a stage (this is considered a stage counterpick)
- Winner chooses a character (this can be considered a character counterpick, but...)
- Loser chooses a character (... the loser gets to change his character last, so he can character counterpick the winner's counterpick)