The "How do you get a Girl Friend?" Thread

[HURRICANE REV]

Well, my titles says it all. How do you talk to a girl when she is around her Friends? and What do you talk about with the girl that you fancy?

 

[crewster]

Something I've been wondering for a while noe, even though I'm only 12!
I'm going to, subtaly, try to get the word out to her but that might not work.

 

[Mith_]

Lets see how long this lasts.

 

[TheJerm]

Well, if she's around her friends, and your a shy person, then I would wait until you see her alone. Do you see her at school or what? And just talk about things that interest you. Maybe start small with casual things like, music, tv if you watch tv, classes if your in school. Then move on to more personal interest.

 

[NeoCrono]

coolbeans

Hi people, well. I have a girlfriend now, and she is awesome
but how I got her is weird, we talked for a little bit. One of the most important things to me is if we can hold a conversation without anything ever being awkward. I know with my ex- we could talk for like 45 minutes and then it was silent.
But I got ahead of myself, talking to a girl when she is with her friends is..... well, that's a tough one. because even if you go over there, and everything goes well. You always wonder what they are talking about when you leave. But women like confidence I suppose, go there with something interesting to talk about and hopefully everyone is interested in what you have to say. Another thing my friend does (and I have no Idea how it works) when he goes to talk to a group of girls, he finds the one he is interested in and he talks to the girl to the left of them. While he is talking to the other girl he will glance at the one he wants to let her know that he is interested and kinda include her in the conversation, he calls it "planting the seeds" and he has gotten laid like 4 times cause of it
If you like a girl, you should not tell her up front. But leave obvious hints that you like her so if you do end up talking, she brand you with the ever so hurtful "friends" label. Small talk is a good way to start conversations, like how was your day? Tell her how yours was, start to tell funny stories about yourself (like my sneaking in the house failure) to make yourself interesting, once you get to know her better, things will come natural. Eventually, conversations will flow, you will go out on some dates, and you two will be happy with each other. Oh, and NEVER lie. Cause eventually the truth will come out. That's all I got, hope this helps

 

[GreenKirby]

Hold a gun to her head and yell "***** will you go out with me?"

Guarantee an instant 'yes.' XD

 

[Ryan Ludovic]

To start, I suggest not quoting superbad in any way, unless she starts talking about how hot Michael Cera is.

Secondly, the most important and overlooked thing is your personality. Your personality will act as a filter in life. The more true to it you stay, the better it will work. More simply put, i am saying 'be yourself'. If you are yourself, and she does not want anything to do with you, don't start pretending to like the music she likes, take up hobbies she likes, she still wont like you. You might trick her for a bit longer than you would have, but it will crumble, and you will be hurt a lot more than you would have to begin with.

My third strand of advice is, is I hope you are looking for girls who are not extremely hot, or dead fxxing sexy, etc. Sure, that could be a nice bonus, and no, im not telling you to scout out that girl who is **** ugly, and has no personality.. We all know one.. You better be looking for personality. I don't care how 'hot' your new 'gal' is.. If you are not with her for her personality, it will crumble hard. If you are snagging one of those girls who are insecure, and need to be in a relationship to function, and you do not like her for her personality, then you will get hurt. If you are dating and all you are looking for is sex, save the future generation from another only child poorly raised by a single mother. I am that child, do you want more of me in the system?

I am not hovering over your shoulder saying 'doooom, dooooooom'

I'm saying there are PLENTY of mistakes that will lead to hurt that are EASY to make.

If you be yourself, talk about what you normally talk about with your friends, do what you normally do when this girl is not present, then you two will hit it off. If you do not, then chances are it would not work out anyways.
In b4 'buuut no girls would like who i am'
You probably aren't even being yourselves anyways.

I would spend half my life without anyone before I spent my whole life alone in dead end relationships.

 

[NeoCrono]

To start, I suggest not quoting superbad in any way, unless she starts talking about how hot Michael Cera is.

Secondly, the most important and overlooked thing is your personality. Your personality will act as a filter in life. The more true to it you stay, the better it will work. More simply put, i am saying 'be yourself'. If you are yourself, and she does not want anything to do with you, don't start pretending to like the music she likes, take up hobbies she likes, she still wont like you. You might trick her for a bit longer than you would have, but it will crumble, and you will be hurt a lot more than you would have to begin with.

My third strand of advice is, is I hope you are looking for girls who are not extremely hot, or dead fxxing sexy, etc. Sure, that could be a nice bonus, and no, im not telling you to scout out that girl who is **** ugly, and has no personality.. We all know one.. You better be looking for personality. I don't care how 'hot' your new 'gal' is.. If you are not with her for her personality, it will crumble hard. If you are snagging one of those girls who are insecure, and need to be in a relationship to function, and you do not like her for her personality, then you will get hurt. If you are dating and all you are looking for is sex, save the future generation from another only child poorly raised by a single mother. I am that child, do you want more of me in the system?

I am not hovering over your shoulder saying 'doooom, dooooooom'

I'm saying there are PLENTY of mistakes that will lead to hurt that are EASY to make.

If you be yourself, talk about what you normally talk about with your friends, do what you normally do when this girl is not present, then you two will hit it off. If you do not, then chances are it would not work out anyways.
In b4 'buuut no girls would like who i am'
You probably aren't even being yourselves anyways.

I would spend half my life without anyone before I spent my whole life alone in dead end relationships.

QFT

if you are just looking for sex, that's a really bad look. A lot of girls know when you are just interested in one thing (I'm a proud virgin) Also it complicates things cause A LOT of feelings get involved, so I would suggest waiting for the right time.
Everyone listen to this man, he knows his stuff

 

[Ryan Ludovic]

QFT

if you are just looking for sex, that's a really bad look. A lot of girls know when you are just interested in one thing (I'm a proud virgin) Also it complicates things cause A LOT of feelings get involved, so I would suggest waiting for the right time.
Everyone listen to this man, he knows his stuff

Thanks,

I know my writing style comes off negatively, and ofcourse, I do not want to give off the impression that I am talking down on everyone or anyone because I am not. Unfortunately, my writing style for advice comes out the same way i find it effective for helping me.

I am also a proud virgin so long as you don't count the tiny stuff as virginity XD
I still am vowing to be this way until i find myself involved with someone I want to lose it to.

 

[Mogwai]

I've got two words for this thread:

Mindgames

 

[Ryan Ludovic]

Chicks also dig it when you steal their money for drugs, and hit them violently.

 

[HURRICANE REV]

This thread is going well . Thanks for the tips guys.

 

[KingJiggyWiggy]

Ryan Ludovic and Mogwai speak the ABSOLUTE TRUTH!

Btw if you're looking for sex then use mind games, there is no better way.

 

[Mogwai]

Ryan Ludovic and Mogwai speak the ABSOLUTE TRUTH!

Btw if you're looking for sex then use mind games, there is no better way.

this is totally true. tech skill rarely leads to sex, you are much better off using mindgames.

ha, I managed to stay my hand with this post and lay off the sig so I don't get another infraction! Someone give me a high five!

 

[HURRICANE REV]

lool I don't want to have a girl just for sex.

 

[Overload]

What was that video with that pro smasher giving advice on women? He said to go up to her and her friends and talk to her friends and ignore her, then she will want to talk to you instead of ignoring you if you talked to her in the first place or something I don't know.

 

[KingJiggyWiggy]

An infraction? For a sig? What is this garbage?

*HIGH FIVES*

If you don't want a girl for sex then you could take one for practice, if you know what I mean. Then you could become a professional escort and make money. This is where the big bucks are baby!

 

[Mogwai]

lool I don't want to have a girl just for sex.

oh, well then... lay off the mindgames and work on your techskill.

*HIGH FIVES*

Thanks!







ok fine, I'll drop the whole being stupid thing. meeting girls and eventually developing a relationship with them is not something that anyone can give you one cover-all piece of advice to. you need to like, provide more information about what your situation is for anyone to be helpful. I'm taking it from your first post that you're not just chasing one girl and trying to get an in to talk to her. it seems like you're just looking for general advice on how to meet girls. from my experiences throughout life, the way that you meet and talk to girls changes A LOT as you move through life. there are different phases throughout Middle School, High School, College and later that everyone seems to go through at different paces. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'd like to give you advice, but knowing whether you're 12 and just starting to take interest in girls again or you're 22 and find that you have trouble meeting new people, especially girls, outside of college, is really important. give me some context and I'll try to give you a hand.

 

[HURRICANE REV]

I see i see. I might try these tips 2morrow at skool thanks guys for the tips. I will tell you lot how I got on 2morrow .

 

[Lord Viper]

Chicks also dig it when you steal their money for drugs, and hit them violently.

LMAO

This post win's, maybe it's those type of girls that love pain and loved to be treated like crap. O_o

It's easy to ask a girl out, but to keep them.... you can't be too nice or they take advantage over you, or you can't be too mean or they will destory your life when they kill you over maddness or devorce you and take a crap load of money because the world is still sexsit, unless you have ten lawers. Since I stop looking for relationship two year's ago, I don't even know myself. =P

 

[Azua]

ONCE AGAIN, WE DON'T ALLOW TOPICS LIKE THIS.

Post it on your ****ing blog or something. ffs.

 

[Xsyven]

I just wish that Azua would notice me....




I love you...

 

[Azua]

Hi Deoxys.