High School

[Click Klack]

I'm starting High School August 5th and I am terrified. Summer was great, I went to my first tourney, I went to South Carolina with a good friend of mine. But i'm going to be really depressed because i'm not going to be able to play smash or any video games as much in the summer and I've been dealing with a lot of grief and depressed and anxious over high school. Any advice?

 

[Pachinkosam]

Just to do your homework and do the projects you will be scared by the first day of freshman year but your freshman school will be your best year in high school trust me I been their

Also you will make a lot of friends in freshmen year.

Also let me tell you the name of the grades
Freshman are 9th graders
Sophomore are 10th graders
Juniors-11th graders
And seniors are 12th graders

 

[E-Mann]

I'm starting 11th grade on the 25th this month. I've been through some ****. At least you have friends and social skills to back you up.

 

[Yashichi]

here's a hot tip: if you behave like an angel the first half of a semester most teachers won't write you up for acting like an idiot in the second half. i've gotten away with so much stuff i shouldn't have because of that. i may have scars and my vision is permanently damaged, but i ruled the art classroom for those two hours and i don't regret it one bit aside from maybe sending that kid to the hospital

 

[radio silent]

Don't care about anything ever.

 

[CptJPuff]

Avoid parties consisting of more than 10 people. If not, know what you're doing at all times.

There's always that one guy that has drugs, alcoholic beverages, etc. at parties. You'll always get into trouble (might even ruin your life) if you fall into those traps.

 

[ELITEWarri0r115]

Don't worry. Just forget anything about what's sort of important outside of school (Videogames, parties, etc.) and focus on work. If you have friends that go there, they are your support as well, ask them about some school related stuff, or on free time, talk about whatever.

 

[Click Klack]

Thanks for the support/advice my first day went really well. Only time I felt anxious was when this girl that I really like was in the same class as me. That's a story for another day. Thanks guys you rock.

 

[E-Mann]

Sorry for not being informative, but I tend to get off-topic sometimes.
I guess the only thing I should give info on is that you shouldn't give a **** what others say about you. That's all I know. They only want to see you suffer. Don't let them have that image on you.

 

[Swagmaster]

I remember that. Being a Freshman going to a new school s terrifying, but other than the actual school work, it's not bad. I'm going to be a freshman this year too, but in college. And I'm both terrified of what it could be like, and excited about all the new people I'll meet. If you go to school, and make some friends, you'll enjoy it maybe as much as you did summer. All this may not be that helpful because I just realized I'm posting it on the day your going to school, but I hope it helps.

 

[Swagmaster]

Thanks for the support/advice my first day went really well. Only time I felt anxious was when this girl that I really like was in the same class as me. That's a story for another day. Thanks guys you rock.

Anxious but lucky.

 

[Chinaux]

Avoid parties consisting of more than 10 people. If not, know what you're doing at all times.

There's always that one guy that has drugs, alcoholic beverages, etc. at parties. You'll always get into trouble (might even ruin your life) if you fall into those traps.

No

 

[Yashichi]

pour one out for chinaux (non alcoholic because you are in high school) rip in peace little dude

 

[TaylorTotFTW]

Nope

 

[Yashichi]

half pour for taylor cuz he aint banned but he still my homie

 

[Duplighost]

Glad to hear your first day went well! Some advice I could add is to just be yourself. Don't change how you are just to fit in, or be cool or popular. People will like you for being unique, because trust me, a lot of people aren't these days.

As elementary as it sounds, just surround yourself with people that will support you and accept you. Nothing's worse than being excluded and unaccepted by whom you thought were your friends.

 

[DarkBlueSpark]

I just started my senior year. Don't worry, high school only seems really daunting at first, but you'll ease into it. You'll just have to devote more time to work. Only play smash and attend tournies if they're on the weekends. I've still enjoyed playing smash for years, just haven't been able to start going to tournies due to my high school workload, but I plan to start once I graduate, since my state college does have a large smash community, so I'll at least hang out with them a lot. Just prioritize hw/studying/extracurriculars and whatever else is important to your high school resume.

 

[Plunder]

Be nice to everyone, and whenever you have a chance to make an enemy a friend do it. Do not think you have to stay within a certain clique or treat others differently depending on their interests and hobbies.

Don't judge others hastily, and don't allow yourself to be affected by others judging you. You are lucky enough to grow up in a time where the world is so progressive and open to everyone, so don't expect anything less from your teenage peers.

If someone is mean to you for no reason, kill em with kindness.

 

[Lily♫]

Don't be afraid to talk to your teachers for help. If you're confused, just go and ask the teacher. They'll gladly help you and prevent you from struggling in the class. Make sure to take time and study to keep yourself from forgetting what you've learned. (It only takes like 5-10 minutes anyways really. You do not need hour-long study sessions.)

 

[Plunder]

Don't be afraid to talk to your teachers for help. If you're confused, just go and ask the teacher. They'll gladly help you and prevent you from struggling in the class. Make sure to take time and study to keep yourself from forgetting what you've learned. (It only takes like 5-10 minutes anyways really. You do not need hour-long study sessions.)

^ This is great advice. Asking for help is never a weakness; refusing to admit you need help however, is one.

Also I forgot to say one very VERY crucial tip -

DO NOT spread gossip or start rumors. And avoid being associated with those that enjoy starting rumors and lies about others.

There will be so many instances where you feel pressured to play along or there might even be a compulsion to talk about others behind their back (perhaps if you are bored of lack other conversation).....don't do it, it will always end badly. People who tend to talk about others or make up lies do so because they themselves are very uninteresting and boring, they have to rely on others to fill in that void.

 

[Click Klack]

I just started my senior year. Don't worry, high school only seems really daunting at first, but you'll ease into it. You'll just have to devote more time to work. Only play smash and attend tournies if they're on the weekends. I've still enjoyed playing smash for years, just haven't been able to start going to tournies due to my high school workload, but I plan to start once I graduate, since my state college does have a large smash community, so I'll at least hang out with them a lot. Just prioritize hw/studying/extracurriculars and whatever else is important to your high school resume.

Thanks! nice avatar btw

 

[Click Klack]

Thank you everyone so much this is so helpful

 

[Spak]

Senior year, turning 18 on the 27th.

My advice is to sleep in at any opportunity you are given. I'm in Marching Band so the social aspect is set (and there are multiple fellow Smashers in marching band, meaning that whenever we have lunch I bring out either my laptop and an emulator with an adapter or a GC and CRT), but rest is very rare and should be cherished whilst it can be.

EDIT: Accidentally put the first day of school as my birthday. It's the 27th, not the 25th lol

 

[Click Klack]

Senior year, turning 18 on the 25th.

My advice is to sleep in at any opportunity you are given. I'm in Marching Band so the social aspect is set (and there are multiple fellow Smashers in marching band, meaning that whenever we have lunch I bring out either my laptop and an emulator with an adapter or a GC and CRT), but rest is very rare and should be cherished whilst it can be.

Band Nerds unite!

 

[Plunder]

Woo hoo! I was in Drumline all 4 years. Ahhh that was the best, I think marching/concert band is the most diverse and fun group to be a part of in High School.

 

[Lily♫]

I played trombone, but because I really have a bad time in my first periods waking up I'm not gonna be doing band this year. (Used to play piano too)

 

[Deleted member 269706]

Just be open minded. Make some friends, and be willing to try new things.

 

[Joe Shmo]

Even though you have already started when I wrote this comment, I have something to say. If the depression & anxiety continues, get help. Things like that don't go away magically on their own. Anxiety/depression is a condition in your brain, not just a thought. There is a treatment I have dealt with school related anxiety before but with help from a therapist and a perscription medication, it went away.

 

[Frisk.]

It seems like everyone else has you covered. I guess my only advise is to always keep others feelings in mind. It's easy to get carried away when your friends or just a large group of people are making fun of someone. Don't be a sheep and just join in because you want to "fit in". Just try to be a nice guy and look out for people and I guarantee that you'll get into less negative situations and feel better about yourself.

 

[Zink Imp]

Don't overdo anything. The worst thing you can do is shutting yourself off. Be open and friendly. High school will only suck if you believe it to be. I've heard a lot say high school sucks and is stupid. But I went into high school being told high school will be the "best four years of your life." With that mentality, I honestly did have a great four years and I sometimes miss high school.
It is a weird point in your life, but giving people an aura that you're scared, depressed and not happy will cause people to think negatively of you.
Yeah, you won't be able to play video games, but you should devote sometime to grades. I ended up in a ****ty college because my grades were poor in high school. I was only able to transfer to a MUCH better school because I studied my ass off during my first two college years because I knew this college was doing nothing to me and realized I made a big mistake
Also:
JOIN CLUBS
It's a great chance to join something interesting, make friends and most importantly sharpening your social skills.
Your senior year and college years will thank you for it.

 

[Click Klack]

You guys rock :')

 

[Suicidal_Donuts]

Based on my freshman experience...
If you have the chance to befriend upperclassmen, do it. I don't mean any upperclassmen, I mean ones that actually like you as a friend, it's just they're just a year or two older than you. I was that freshman who many Sophomores and Juniors as friends, and it made my anxiety over being a baby freshman much less severe as I felt kind of protected by them. Most of them didn't think I was a freshman when I met them actually. If you can't befriend any upperclassmen, just make sure you've got a good, diverse set of people that like you for you in your own grade. Always having a friend nearby should make you feel more comfortable in situations you probably wouldn't have enjoyed by yourself.
Other tips:

• Stay away from bad influences. It's cliché, but you never know what trouble they'll get you into.
• Be respectful to your teachers. They'll like that a lot and won't be as harsh on you, even if your grades are slipping.
• If you have a serious issue with one of your classes, don't be afraid to get your schedule changed.
• Try to balance out school, friends, and other things so you don't stress too much.
• Make sure your mental state is always healthy. If you need help, get it. If you're too stressed/overworked, take a break.

And lastly, my final tip is:

• Have fun! I don't mean the illegal, "I shouldn't be doing this" fun, I mean the legitimate fun that makes you happy without terrible consequences. High School is your last bit of being a kid until college and beyond forces you to grow up.

That's pretty much it for my two cents (whether it helped or not). I personally had a great Freshman year, and I hope yours turns out swell as well!

 

[TerraCaty']

• Don't feel obligated to do something because others do it.
• Try not to do anything illegal, yes that means that mary jane.
• Try to buddy up with some of the teachers, you have NO idea how much it helps socially and academically.
• ALWAYS think critically. ALWAYS. Just because something has a certain appeal DOESN'T mean it's theoretically or practically a good idea.
• You're going to get into conflicts no matter what but always try to avoid them
• Remember that it's high school and honestly the people don't there matter. Everyone's still learning
• Try not to beat yourself up if you don't get good grades or don't do well in extracurricular activities, there's always another chance
  That being said your first two years are critical to your grade point average so even if you're not an academic try a bit harder early on, it really pays off later
  
• It's also a good idea to be buddy buddy with seniors, some of them may be intimidating but in the end we're all just people, connections in general are good make a lot of them
• Try to have fun because you've got 2-3 years of tedium ahead and then 1-2 years of straight chillin'
  
  And possibly the most important tip of all
• Don't be that kid who wears camo shorts, monster tee shirts, has like 20 Axe Deodorant sprays in his back pack, and flips his pen in the back of the room spewing quotes. Or a fedora'ed avenger. Just don't.
  
  I hope you have a wonderful time in high school because in a way it's completely and totally terrible but liberating and fun.
  ~A senior