High School Homecoming Anxiety and My Future Situation

[Mr. Rogu]

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So my high schools homecoming is coming up. Once again, i am in a dilemma. Do i ask the girl i like to it, or not ask her?

Last year, I also had that same dilemma. (same girl). Last year though what happened is that i never asked her even though i had the perfect opportunities to ask her pretty much everyday. We both had math last hour and our math rooms were right next to each other. Then when math ended, her locker was apparently right next to her math room and she pretty much always went to it. So i never asked and ive regretted it, til now anyways.

This year, things have changed to not make me so nervous around her. Like for instance, we started hanging out and continued to since around late may. Im pretty sure we have something going on here. I always enjoy my time with her and she seems to feel the same. But theres a problem, we have no classes with each other and i never see her during school anymore and since i go to a different school in the afternoon now. Last tuesday, i didnt have to go to my school in the afternoon so i had a full lunch hour. I ask her if she wants to go to lunch with me and she says yes. I figure after lunch, i can ask her then.

Tuesday comes, and we both had a great time at lunch. We are walking towards the car and i ask her then. Right now, i feel accomplished. I asked her, and i wont regret this year. But she says that she would go with me but she already made plans to go with her main group of friends. I mean, thats a good reason to not go with me, right? Now I feel kinda afraid. I dont know if asking her and the response she gave me messed up what we had going on.

Thursday comes. I go to my math teacher during lunch cause i had to do test corrections. When i enter the room, she happens to be there. We both say hi and she leaves for her lunch. The way we said hi was how we always say hi. So this seems to be that everythings cool. At least to me it does.

Any thoughts, and thanks for reading this.

 

[highfive]

Go for it. Homecoming is that special time of year where people go out of their comfort zones a little. You should do it. No regrets ol' hoss.

EDIT- Don't let her get away if you like her.

 

[Mr. Rogu]

Go for it. Homecoming is that special time of year where people go out of their comfort zones a little. You should do it. No regrets ol' hoss.

EDIT- Don't let her get away if you like her.

Well i did ask her and she said that she would go with me, but she already made plans to go with her main group of friends.

I know, i just dont know how to exactly do that yet

 

[POKE40]

When the time comes, don't think just act.

- Wolf

Some Starfox Assault Quotes right there!
Boom Chica chica Wack wack.
:D

(I'm having too much fun right now)

 

[Mr. Rogu]

When the time comes, don't think just act.

- Wolf

Some Starfox Assault Quotes right there!
Boom Chica chica Wack wack.
:D

(I'm having too much fun right now)

ah, so true.

 

[highfive]

Perhaps asking her to go steady with you is in order. Or a kick in the nads if she's really pretty and you decide not to ask her out at all.

 

[Ojanya]

Homecoming is always WAAAAAY better with a date dude, and if you really like this chick, pursue it. You need to just talk to her about. Tell her what you're feelings are about the whole situation.

 

[Mr. Rogu]

Perhaps asking her to go steady with you is in order. Or a kick in the nads if she's really pretty and you decide not to ask her out at all.

I (or at least i did) thought i kinda already asked her out back in may. I asked her if she wanted to go to a fair with me and she said yes. Back when i did that, i basically said to myself to grow a pair and do it already.

Yea, she is really pretty, at least to me anyways.

Homecoming is always WAAAAAY better with a date dude, and if you really like this chick, pursue it. You need to just talk to her about. Tell her what you're feelings are about the whole situation.

I know it is. I do like her a lot but im pretty sure shes set sure in stone that shes not gonna desert her friends for me. I dont even know when i would see her again before homecoming. I mean, i do wanna tell her how i feel. but i dont want to ruin anything we have right now either.

 

[Scott!]

Here's my best suggestion that won't put her in an awkward situation with her friends or anything. I assume this is for the homecoming dance, as opposed to the game. Anyway, ask her if she would like to meet you there and dance with you for some of the dances. That way she can go with her friends and all that. She's not going to dance with them, not for the slow dances anyway. So maybe then you could get your time with her in. It's not spending the whole time with her, but it's a compromise so that everyone can win. Good luck with however it goes though.

 

[P.C. Jona]

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So my high schools homecoming is coming up. Once again, i am in a dilemma. Do i ask the girl i like to it, or not ask her?

Last year, I also had that same dilemma. (same girl). Last year though what happened is that i never asked her even though i had the perfect opportunities to ask her pretty much everyday. We both had math last hour and our math rooms were right next to each other. Then when math ended, her locker was apparently right next to her math room and she pretty much always went to it. So i never asked and ive regretted it, til now anyways.

This year, things have changed to not make me so nervous around her. Like for instance, we started hanging out and continued to since around late may. Im pretty sure we have something going on here. I always enjoy my time with her and she seems to feel the same. But theres a problem, we have no classes with each other and i never see her during school anymore and since i go to a different school in the afternoon now. Last tuesday, i didnt have to go to my school in the afternoon so i had a full lunch hour. I ask her if she wants to go to lunch with me and she says yes. I figure after lunch, i can ask her then.

Tuesday comes, and we both had a great time at lunch. We are walking towards the car and i ask her then. Right now, i feel accomplished. I asked her, and i wont regret this year. But she says that she would go with me but she already made plans to go with her main group of friends. I mean, thats a good reason to not go with me, right? Now I feel kinda afraid. I dont know if asking her and the response she gave me messed up what we had going on.

Thursday comes. I go to my math teacher during lunch cause i had to do test corrections. When i enter the room, she happens to be there. We both say hi and she leaves for her lunch. The way we said hi was how we always say hi. So this seems to be that everythings cool. At least to me it does.

Any thoughts, and thanks for reading this.

haha cruisin in your jeep? if your gonna get one definitely do it, jeeps ****
i have an 02 grand cherokee 4x4 v8 and its amazing

and bro dont worry about homecoming

take her somewhere else, ask her on a date.

so what if she said she cant for homecoming

that doesnt mean you cant take her to something else

make a move bro

if your pretty sure she enjoys your time together, theres a 85% chance she'll say yes

just go for it

also going to homecoming with her is not better then a date

a date can lead to a steady relationship

homecoming can lead to you getting played in public

her leaving you for friends

leaving you alone

idk

i would prefer a real date

go ice skating or something

they love it

 

[Mr. Rogu]

Here's my best suggestion that won't put her in an awkward situation with her friends or anything. I assume this is for the homecoming dance, as opposed to the game. Anyway, ask her if she would like to meet you there and dance with you for some of the dances. That way she can go with her friends and all that. She's not going to dance with them, not for the slow dances anyway. So maybe then you could get your time with her in. It's not spending the whole time with her, but it's a compromise so that everyone can win. Good luck with however it goes though.

Yeah, i was thinking something like that. Ask her to dance with me for a few songs. That way, ill still get to be with her, just not for the whole thing.

haha cruisin in your jeep? if your gonna get one definitely do it, jeeps ****
i have an 02 grand cherokee 4x4 v8 and its amazing

and bro dont worry about homecoming

take her somewhere else, ask her on a date.

so what if she said she cant for homecoming

that doesnt mean you cant take her to something else

make a move bro

if your pretty sure she enjoys your time together, theres a 85% chance she'll say yes

just go for it

also going to homecoming with her is not better then a date

a date can lead to a steady relationship

homecoming can lead to you getting played in public

her leaving you for friends

leaving you alone

idk

i would prefer a real date

go ice skating or something

they love it

Read my location? Yeah, i love jeeps. I actually ended up getting a 2004 dodge neon. still wish i had a jeep though.

Yeah, i was totally thinking that. Just cause she cant go to homecoming with me doesnt mean ill stop seeing her. Homecoming is just one night. There will be plenty of other opportunities to spend time with her. Besides, on a date, its just the two of us. at homecoming, a lot of people from the school will be there.