For the sake of avoiding thread spam, I'm not going to make a thread about finding a partner, and I figured this was probably the most appropriate thread to ask it on. I've got two questions: How can I get my friends more into Melee, and how can I find a playing partner if I can't get my friends to play with me?
I've got a few friends that are interested in Melee that each have their own GC and copy of Melee, but they aren't super invested, and I'm way better than them. They aren't devoted enough yet to sit down for two hours and learn how to wavedash, and I don't know how I can get them to or what I can do to tutor them and give them pointers to improve their game. My mom is legally blind and can't drive, so even though there are lots of tournaments in my area (there have been less and less as of late, but still some monthlies here and there), it's really difficult for me to get to them, so having a challenging partner that I can play with often is one of the only ways I will be able to get consistent practice with people. I have horrendous tournament nerves because I'm so unfamiliar with playing with people, so I freak out and doubt myself. My internet connection sucks, and whenever I try to download the Dolphin emulator, it doesn't work, so Netplay is out of the question. Basically, I just want to know how I can get my friends to be more interested and better at the game, and how I can find a partner if it won't work out with my friends.
EDIT: Also, I feel like I need to start setting some goals for myself to make sure that I'm maximizing my practice, rather than just trying to "get good." What would be some feasible goals that I could set? Like, I don't know how prestigious the Charlotte P.R. is, or how far I am from winning a local, but I think you guys definitely have a better scheme of things than me, so anything helps.