Decisions, decisions....

[Anthony523]

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This is my first blog so here it goes. Recently my life has been FILLED with TONS of choices of which I need or needed to decide on them, some are minor decisions like what am I doing for Halloween, others slightly more extreme like if my parents split who would I go with?
Speaking of which, I know many peoples parents have gotten divorced and the child never really saw it coming, leaving the child to pick a parent within a short period of time, well for some time now I've known that my parents relationship was on the rocks and that they will be getting divorced sometime in the future, and the knowledge of that happening leaves such a strange pit in my stomach and many questions to be asked, Which parent? Where will I live? How is my lifestyle going to change? So I ask all of you here on Smashboards, what is one situation in your life that made you feel the same way, or just feel free to comment about my situation.

 

[Skadorski]

You need to choose yourself. People can help, but it's your choice.

And are you 100% sure your parents going to break up? Because my parents were extremely close but they stayed together.

 

[Anthony523]

I'm not asking for others to chose for me, as no one on here knows me on a personal level. I am asking though for stories to be shared.

As an answer to your question, my mom told me straight up that once she gets a chance she's going to.

 

[Skadorski]

I'm not asking for others to chose for me, as no one on here knows me on a personal level. I am asking though for stories to be shared.

As an answer to your question, my mom told me straight up that once she gets a chance she's going to.

That's sad man, I feel bad for you.
I hope you can keep in touch with whoever you don't go with. My mom got divorced with someone and(most)of her children started hating her because of it. Not saying you will, but unless the person you don't go with doesn't like you, don't hate them.

 

[highfive]

Wow. Downer man.

I understand somewhat how your feeling. My friend's parents went through a divorce and he's never really been the same since.

 

[smash brawl player 99021]

^ Same here. Cept it was my parents >_>
Except I go back and forth between houses. Not stay with just one.

 

[Anthony523]

My mom told me that they would have split a long time ago if I wasn't born.

 

[¯\_S.(ツ).L.I.D._/¯]

My parents got divorced when I was six, I didn't get a choice.

 

[highfive]

Wow. now that's a damper.

People change, and they think, and they do. That's how the human race is. People have different ideals on what they think happiness is. They need to fulfill their id. The id is the little rat in your head that says "I NEED this" and won't be satisfied until it's full. And people follow that id. That's why there is so much misery and hate in this world. And so much happiness and joy.

 

[Delta-cod]

I can't say I've ever made a large decision in my life. It's been pretty uneventful up until now. Haha. When my parents got divorced I never had a choice either. It was only 2 years ago, I was 13. I'm where I woulda picked to stay anyways, so it's good.

For my perspective on your choice, I'd probably stay living at home. Depending on how far whatever parent is going when they leave, it can make a huge difference. My Dad left state, but I still see him every now and then. If they both live close, it doesn't make as large an impact on you, but I'd still stay with the current home. You can still see both parents, as long as there's no hate between you and them. =]