I don't really know what to say to that except 'Okay'.
Okay, well I do have more to say. If there's one thing I learned from studying literary theory, it was to be extremely open minded, and to accept the fact that people's decisions and perceptions of things are conditioned by their cultural and social upbringing.
That is, no two people will draw the same perception of say, a story, as they'll bring different experiences to it. It's kind of a tangent to what you're saying, but it's the same thing. From what I drew from your rant, you can't be angry at people for the actions they take based on their cultural and social understanding of said actions.