SynikaL
Smash Lord
Anything taken to a competitive level becomes more than "just a game". Unfortunately for you, what's ultimately at stake here isn't your friendships, or the integrity of your very existence.To some people, Melee is more than just a game. My time spent with Melee was only 50% becoming better than everyone else. The other 50% was becoming a part of a community. My friends play Melee, and the most fun I have gaming comes from hanging out with them and competing with them.
I think you have a very wrong idea about what people's motivations are in playing video games. No one is seriously "trying to bind their existences and/or self-worth" to a game. You might be projecting.
Anyways, you said that I should stop and am ultimately doing nothing of service if I'm not ready to "swallow my pride" and concede to the point that the community will ultimately move on to Brawl. That's fine, but it's a matter of opinion, and my opinion is different. Only time will tell what will happen to Melee.
It's your pride.
You may not realize it, but the fact is, that is exactly what you're doing.No one is seriously "trying to bind their existences and/or self-worth" to a game. You might be projecting.
Man is a social animal. Human relations is an integral aspect of a conventional man's configuration. Friendships are created and developed from this need. Friendships aid in giving a man a sense of his self-worth which will in turn, ultimately help define his existence.
Excise the "Competitive Melee Component" from your personal equation for just a moment: Do these "friends"/relations still exist? If they are truly endangered by the removal of the "Competitive Melee Component", then they are none other than transient companions crafted by a very specific social environment.
If they are not endangered by the "Competitive Melee Component", then there really is no issue to resolve outside your pride (Ego). Your friends will be your friends whether you're playing Melee competitively, or not. Melee tournaments will continue to exist as Melee enthusiasts continue to exist. The real issue here, is Ego. Just because Melee is not the face of this community anymore, does not truly endanger the Melee enthusiast's personal situation. It simply marginalizes it. Don't like being marginalized? Tell your Ego to get over it.
-Kimo
(In the context of our situation, that's the inevitability.)