Loss, loss, loss. That's how it's been for me lately in For Glory. Some matches I just throw in the towel after my opponent takes my first stock without even taking any damage. This game is stupidly frustrating and difficult, I try and try to get better... Y'know, learn from defeat and blah blah blah, but nope. I learn nothing, and i keep losing. All it is is just shield, grab, smash attack, DODGE ALL MY FREAKING ATTACKS, DODGE MY GRAB ATTEMPTS, PUNISH.
I try to predict and read my opponent, know what happens? I FAIL AND GET PUNISHED, MY OPPONENT TAUNTS. People tell me to stop complaining and "git gud"... what do you think I've been trying to do?!!! I watch a lot of videos and tutorials about Sm4sh, about how my main, Lucina, works, AND NONE OF IT HELPS! I still get freaking rekt everytime i play someone that knows what they're doing.
Just give me an honest answer here please. If you're reading this and you're a competitive Sm4sher that's good at it, how did you work your way up?
Firstly, stay calm, don't expect to win; try to win. Master your temper and your nerves and making rational decisions midgame becomes a lot easier. You should be watching what your opponent does just as much as you watch your own character, that's not possible if your teeming with frustration. Take deep breaths or do whatever exercise works to keep you in a calm mood.
Second, practice offline vs friends if you can.
Third, how are you not learning things? Something is iffy here, I'm willing to bet you're not looking in the right places when you're looking for information on how to play. What videos are you watching? Which guides are you reading? You should be watching tournament footage, raw competitive play featuring professional players, look at what they do, how they move, how they bait, how they followup, how their mindgames work; moreover, you should be reading this thread if you to keep with the metagame:
http://smashboards.com/threads/viab...ive-impressions.410551/page-126#post-19959315 <- you really should keep up with that thread.
How well do you understand the fundamentals of competitive play? Mindgames, neutral/advantaged/disadvantaged states, etc etc.
Are you saving replays of your losses so that you can watch them later to analyze your gameplay and spot your mistakes? If not do so.
Never practice vs cpu's, it's utterly pointless and will make you worse. Only practice vs cpus in training mode in order to learn combos/practice execution, **** like that. Never actively fight cpu's, you will just pick up bad habits. Also, if a character infuriates you, pick up said character, that way you'll learn its weaknesses the hard way. In general its good to be able to play decently with ALL characters on the rooster, because you need to grasp the fundamentals of all characters in order to fight them effectively. This takes times. Don't stay loyal to 1-4 characters, that's stupid. You're not a pro player, keep an open mind and explore the game. You can pick up your mains later when you have a better grasp of things, of course if you'd rather win than get good you should pick a main right away and then just learn all the gimmicks you can with it, that'll let you do better in the beginning, but in the end it will hold you back.
Finally, don't play to win. Play to learn, I can use cheesy online strategies to beat opponents, cheap gimmicks and stuff like that are enough to beat a majority, but you'll never get good playing like that. You have to try to play correctly
even if that means losing a thousand games until you learn to do so properly. I see you wrote in the thread that you're scared that you'll fail when you try and read your opponents, that's a really really bad excuse, of course there's a risk everytime you try and read, that's why its called reading. Moreover, the way you learn to do stuff like reading and other stuff is by trying until you succeed, knowing that in order to succeed you have to first fail until you do. Its like that whenever you try to implement a new strategy to improve your game, in the beginning
it will make you weaker and will cause you to lose more.