Hi, passerby logging onto smashboards for the first time in years.
idk if anyone's pointed either of you in the right direction for this yet, but from what I remember about what's going on with southwest Ohio is that you have Cinci and Dayton tournaments. Dayton plays in a place called Clarkade nowadays I think? And maybe Wright State, but y'know. Cinci plays in a place called Arcade Legacy.
Ohio Smash seems to communicate a lot through facebook, the main ones for southwest are the Cincinnati Smash facebook group and the Dayton Smash facebook group, so I'd suggest looking into those and getting on facebook.
Hope this at least points you in the right direction. (Facebook groups. Facebook groups is the right direction I'm pointing you in.)
(Also it should be noted that when I was active in tournaments I was a Melee player, I don't know which tournaments are playing Ultimate and which aren't, but I'm on the hunt so here I am lol.)