Well, my whole life was improved yesterday.

[-VictoriaJustice-]

OK, I've been mostly anti-social and really insecure about my appearance. I always thought I was an ugly boy and I was maybe about a 2 or a 3, maybe. My friends always tried to cheer me up but to no avail. So, Saturday, I'm at IHop of all frigging places and while eating beast as hell kid's macaroni, my mom leans in to whisper something to me. She says some girl keeps looking at me. I take a quick peek and damn, was gorgeous. I start freaking out and long story short, I didn't approach her. When I walked up and left, she was seriously checking me out up and down.

Then, two hours later, I tell my friend about it and she says I'm about a 7. I don't feel insecure about my appearance anymore.

Happy day! I am no longer insecure about my appearance! Hooray!

 

[DragonRob20]

Keep at it broski. Little stuff like that will change your self-esteem for the better. Trust me

 

[Vashimus]

Your problem is your basing your opinion of your attractiveness off the reactions of other people, which is gonna bite you in the ass when you get older. I never thought I was that attractive in high school either. I was fit, but girls never really flirted with me or approached me, so I said **** 'em, and assumed I wasn't that good-looking. It was only a couple years later I found out from my friend that a lot of the girls thought I was one of the hottest guys in the grade, and were generally too nervous to actually go up and talk to me.

If you think you're attractive, you're attractive. You're 15 and you still have a lot ahead of you. I can understand feeling shy because your mom was right there, but get in the habit of approaching girls now while you're young, because they will rarely ever approach you themselves.

 

[Deleted member]

get da bixhes

steal da riches

obtain the std itches.

If you go by my THUGLIFE2K12 motto, you will get girls in no time.

(I'll probably come by here later and give you a more serious response)

 

[smashbroskilla]

OK, I've been mostly anti-social and really insecure about my appearance. I always thought I was an ugly boy and I was maybe about a 2 or a 3, maybe. My friends always tried to cheer me up but to no avail. So, Saturday, I'm at IHop of all frigging places and while eating beast as hell kid's macaroni, my mom leans in to whisper something to me. She says some girl keeps looking at me. I take a quick peek and damn, was gorgeous. I start freaking out and long story short, I didn't approach her. When I walked up and left, she was seriously checking me out up and down.

Then, two hours later, I tell my friend about it and she says I'm about a 7. I don't feel insecure about my appearance anymore.

Happy day! I am no longer insecure about my appearance! Hooray!

Just wait until you start growing facial hair. Dumb hipster women love beards and usually have daddy issues. Grow a beard and don't shower and you will be able to take your pic from the trendy sheep masses known as hipsters. Have old pants that are high water/flood ready? No problem. Cut them into shorts so short that your balls almost hang out and you got yourself the complete package. Put together a fixie bike and wax the tips of your mustache as you soar into downtown areas on your new bicycle. Convince the local homeless man to buy you and your friends craft beer. Go for the beer that tastes like beer and you will be the talk of the town. Do what I just told you to do and do it without even thinking about it. Don't worry about anyone but yourself and if someone finds your appearance funny, or doesn't like your unbathed stench then they are morons and owe you the world. This is the apex of your generation.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KWBV7yKWhWE

 

[Jon Farron]

Just wait until you start growing facial hair. Dumb hipster women love beards and usually have daddy issues. Grow a beard and don't shower and you will be able to take your pic from the trendy sheep masses known as hipsters. Have old pants that are high water/flood ready? No problem. Cut them into shorts so short that your balls almost hang out and you got yourself the complete package. Put together a fixie bike and wax the tips of your mustache as you soar into downtown areas on your new bicycle. Convince the local homeless man to buy you and your friends craft beer. Go for the beer that tastes like beer and you will be the talk of the town. Do what I just told you to do and do it without even thinking about it. Don't worry about anyone but yourself and if someone finds your appearance funny, or doesn't like your unbathed stench then they are morons and owe you the world. This is the apex of your generation.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KWBV7yKWhWE

Worst advice ever. Lol


Anyway, I used to think I wasn't that great looking either. Then I got a job in retail. God, girls are always trying to flirt with me. D:
I also found out from my sister that all her friends have a crush on me, which was proven when she had a slumber party a couple months ago and one of them was continuously hitting on me. She also stole my shirt and won't give it back. >.>

 

[starcock]

You could be fat and look like gannondwarf, if you have status, girls will like you so work on that, trust me.

 

[smashbroskilla]

You could be fat and look like gannondwarf, if you have status, girls will like you so work on that, trust me.

Status sure. Personality goes a long way too. I was obviously kidding about my above post. Sadly it's true though. I have a friend of mine named Patrick who's 300 pounds and doesn't take crap from anyone. He stands his ground and surrounds himself with classy people- him and his girlfriend came into my second job Friday night. The girl is a hottie and weighs around 120 pounds( I personally like a little junk in the trunk). So it doesn't matter how you look ALL the time. It's how you carry yourself, the little wity remarks back and forth, and sometimes saying no to a woman can drive her crazy. I say no to my girlfriend all the time lol.

 

[Vashimus]

You could be fat and look like gannondwarf, if you have status, girls will like you so work on that, trust me.

Or you can lose weight, up your fashion, learn how to flirt and get twice as many girls.

Material success is not the answer to getting good with women. At best, it's a tool. At worst, it's a distraction.

 

[starcock]

Status isn't exclusive to having material success. Showing leadership skills and value within your social group will attract women in that group. Someone with high status in the smash community( because they are good at the game, a good host, very funny, a vet), will attract the girls in the smash community easy. This doesn't mean the same man with high status in the smash community will attract cheerleaders in the football team club. Different types of status in different social circles. Looks doesn't matter to much if you carry yourself well and have influence among your peers.

Look, don't stop taking showers, it is not what I meant. Just don't get to hung up about looks.

 

[-VictoriaJustice-]

Just wait until you start growing facial hair. Dumb hipster women love beards and usually have daddy issues. Grow a beard and don't shower and you will be able to take your pic from the trendy sheep masses known as hipsters. Have old pants that are high water/flood ready? No problem. Cut them into shorts so short that your balls almost hang out and you got yourself the complete package. Put together a fixie bike and wax the tips of your mustache as you soar into downtown areas on your new bicycle. Convince the local homeless man to buy you and your friends craft beer. Go for the beer that tastes like beer and you will be the talk of the town. Do what I just told you to do and do it without even thinking about it. Don't worry about anyone but yourself and if someone finds your appearance funny, or doesn't like your unbathed stench then they are morons and owe you the world. This is the apex of your generation.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KWBV7yKWhWE

I do have a beard, I am a bit overweight but I don't care.

I'M FABULOUS!

 

[Vashimus]

Status isn't exclusive to having material success. Showing leadership skills and value within your social group will attract women in that group. Someone with high status in the smash community( because they are good at the game, a good host, very funny, a vet), will attract the girls in the smash community easy. This doesn't mean the same man with high status in the smash community will attract cheerleaders in the football team club. Different types of status in different social circles. Looks doesn't matter to much if you carry yourself well and have influence among your peers.

Look, don't stop taking showers, it is not what I meant. Just don't get to hung up about looks.

That's perfectly fine if you wanna limit yourself to dating girls within your social circle. I know plenty of guys do that, but I personally don't like limiting my options. That beautiful girl you see walking across the street doesn't know how you are around your friends, what your status is, whatever. She doesn't know a thing about you, and the last thing you want to do is showboat. All she has to go off of is your appearance and how you come across.

Learning how to be sexy (which isn't limited to your looks) only helps you in the future, there's no reason not to work on it.

 

[starcock]

That's perfectly fine if you wanna limit yourself to dating girls within your social circle. I know plenty of guys do that, but I personally don't like limiting my options. That beautiful girl you see walking across the street doesn't know how you are around your friends, what your status is, whatever. She doesn't know a thing about you, and the last thing you want to do is showboat. All she has to go off of is your appearance and how you come across.

Learning how to be sexy (which isn't limited to your looks) only helps you in the future, there's no reason not to work on it.

How hot is your girlfriend?

 

[Vashimus]

I'm single and have been for a while. Too busy these days to make that kind of commitment.

Last girl I slept with was a little over a week ago who I met at the mall, and I thought she was pretty stunning. Pretty blonde with black leather boots, short grey skirt, rocker tee, blue flannel shirt and aviator glasses.

 

[Luigitoilet]

"rocker tee"

 

[Teran]

Awwwwwww bless. ^__^

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

I used to think I was at least decent looking.

I WAS in shape. Could run the mile in 6 minutes and bench 200 lbs.

However, I never got a girl in high school and since then it doesn't seem like I could attract them at least

Only girl that even noticed my existence called me a Hipster in a mocking tone

I'm not as in shape as I was in highschool though

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

keep rockin the confidence, friend.
being confident is good for you, not just in the sense of dating and whatever
its always good to be confident for your own health and happiness!~ yay

 

[Vashimus]

"rocker tee"

Damn right.

Spoiler

I used to think I was at least decent looking.

I WAS in shape. Could run the mile in 6 minutes and bench 200 lbs.

However, I never got a girl in high school and since then it doesn't seem like I could attract them at least

Only girl that even noticed my existence called me a Hipster in a mocking tone

I'm not as in shape as I was in highschool though

Well have you made the effort to getting to meet girls, PsychoIncarnate? Nothing just falls on your lap, you have to go after it yourself.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

Damn right.

Spoiler

Well have you made the effort to getting to meet girls, PsychoIncarnate? Nothing just falls on your lap, you have to go after it yourself.

Well, I at least get out

I'm not sure what I'm suppose to do though

You can put all the effort you want toward something, but if you're doing it wrong it doesn't get you anywhere

 

[Luigitoilet]

"doing it wrong" can mean a thousand different things, and one girl's "wrong" could be another girl's "right" or at least "fine".

firstly you need to have something interesting about yourself. try and get some interests and hobbies and pursuits that aren't anime and videogames (just speaking generally here, not aimed at anyone in particular). attractiveness is a lot more than just how someone looks, it's the confidence exuded when someone feels good about their own life. personally, i find nothing more pathetic than people who constantly whine about being alone or who feel like not being in a relationship makes them less of a person. most of these people are completely void of charm, personality, and interest in anything besides themselves. try to become comfortable talking to girls/guys without thinking or trying to "get them", and to do that you need something of interest to talk about.

tl:dr get culture and pursue skill-based hobbies, talk to more people in general, and stop obsessing over your poor self-image and self-worth. these things are more important than getting girls, but will also help in that goal as well.

 

[JoshCube2]

OK, I've been mostly anti-social and really insecure about my appearance. I always thought I was an ugly boy and I was maybe about a 2 or a 3, maybe. My friends always tried to cheer me up but to no avail. So, Saturday, I'm at IHop of all frigging places and while eating beast as hell kid's macaroni, my mom leans in to whisper something to me. She says some girl keeps looking at me. I take a quick peek and damn, was gorgeous. I start freaking out and long story short, I didn't approach her. When I walked up and left, she was seriously checking me out up and down.

Then, two hours later, I tell my friend about it and she says I'm about a 7. I don't feel insecure about my appearance anymore.

Happy day! I am no longer insecure about my appearance! Hooray!

In my opinion, everyone in this world should be a 0/10, mainly due to the social media.

 

[Rabbattack]

I'm single and have been for a while. Too busy these days to make that kind of commitment.

Last girl I slept with was a little over a week ago who I met at the mall, and I thought she was pretty stunning. Pretty blonde with black leather boots, short grey skirt, rocker tee, blue flannel shirt and aviator glasses.

Remember to give him every detail about it. Teenagers need to learn so they don't screw up the lives of others or their selves. No one wants to contract cooties. Make sure to contribute to this very important topic and promote safe sex. Remember, no one wants an unwanted pregnancy.

I've already got my eyes set one someone myself...