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~Radiance~
Meow-Meow, Choco-Chow
dont support any type of verbal or physical punishment. positive punishment (adding of an aversive stimuli such as hitting or yelling) tells the child what NOT to do. it doesn't, however, tell a child what TO do. Reinforcement rewards a child for doing the correct thing, and in the future will result in the child repeating that behavior. the child is also MUCH MORE likely to repeat a good behavior due to reinforcement as opposed to not do a behavior due to punishment
when a child acts out, the best course of action is to let them whine until they realize they wont be rewarded. children tend to throw tantrums because they think they will be given what they want. by not giving them what they want, the behavior will diminish and become extinct if they realize it dosent result in being rewarded. cause and effect, its as simple as that
also, mother 3 i agree kinda now that it shldnt have been translated, theres some raunchy stuff that wldnt have got thru if it had been americanized lol
when a child acts out, the best course of action is to let them whine until they realize they wont be rewarded. children tend to throw tantrums because they think they will be given what they want. by not giving them what they want, the behavior will diminish and become extinct if they realize it dosent result in being rewarded. cause and effect, its as simple as that
also, mother 3 i agree kinda now that it shldnt have been translated, theres some raunchy stuff that wldnt have got thru if it had been americanized lol
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They better dub that trailer soon, I can't wait to hear Quinton Flynn saying those words in all their glory.
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That's why you gotta do both. Punish them when they're bad, award them when they're good.
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Meow-Meow, Choco-Chow
LOLOL kk. go hit your kids and let me know how that works out for you.
Stealth Raptor
Smash Legend
what phoenix said. and timeout did not do anything for me, only the fear of pain actually got me to respond. im all for letting them know what not to do and if they dont do it, punish however you need to to get them to listen.
But that's teaching kids to respect authority, not think for themselves.
That's how you get mindless people in the world, cause they only know how to obey, not push the limits and discover new things and act on their own.
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Meow-Meow, Choco-Chow
timeout is a FORM of punishment tho -_-.
hitting your kid to make them listen only makes them fear it, not challenge it. if theres no negotiation happening and its just listen or be hit, you arent giving the child an opportunity to challenge paradigms, your fitting them into a box.
like i said, the best possible way to raise a child is with reinforcement for good behaviors, but not punishment for bad ones. you can talk to the kid about why they did it, which is favorable t punishment. but hitting a kid only damages them psychologically, and timeout dosent teach. another form of timeout you can do, is tell them you are going into another room, and when they are done being upset/rude/mean, they can come see you. that way, you arent exiling the child from yourself, you are giving the child time to reconcile with themselves and come to you
you dont have to agree with this and thats fine, im just saying that from many studies and professional works, this is the best way to raise kids.
you can read more if you look up Dr. Tasha Howe.
hitting your kid to make them listen only makes them fear it, not challenge it. if theres no negotiation happening and its just listen or be hit, you arent giving the child an opportunity to challenge paradigms, your fitting them into a box.
like i said, the best possible way to raise a child is with reinforcement for good behaviors, but not punishment for bad ones. you can talk to the kid about why they did it, which is favorable t punishment. but hitting a kid only damages them psychologically, and timeout dosent teach. another form of timeout you can do, is tell them you are going into another room, and when they are done being upset/rude/mean, they can come see you. that way, you arent exiling the child from yourself, you are giving the child time to reconcile with themselves and come to you
you dont have to agree with this and thats fine, im just saying that from many studies and professional works, this is the best way to raise kids.
you can read more if you look up Dr. Tasha Howe.
KayLo!
Smarter than your average wabbit.
Kids are garbage. Best solution is to not have them in the first place. 
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Meow-Meow, Choco-Chow
if you dont think you can hanlde it then yea thats prob the best option lol
Amen to that. Although I hear having children helps people grow to be better people themselves.Kids are garbage. Best solution is to not have them in the first place.
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Meow-Meow, Choco-Chow
i know im not ready for them.
i also learned in one of my courses this:
if you have kids it makes a bond that is extremely special and is hard to break, a bond that is amazing and many ppl cherish
if you DONT have kids, you and your partner have a lot more money to do what you want, you arent tied down anywhere, your love life is still amazing, etc
when you have kids, you can never reach a love life/feeling of closeness that was the same as BEFORE you had a kid
just some food for thought lol
i also learned in one of my courses this:
if you have kids it makes a bond that is extremely special and is hard to break, a bond that is amazing and many ppl cherish
if you DONT have kids, you and your partner have a lot more money to do what you want, you arent tied down anywhere, your love life is still amazing, etc
when you have kids, you can never reach a love life/feeling of closeness that was the same as BEFORE you had a kid
just some food for thought lol
KayLo!
Smarter than your average wabbit.
Yet another solution: just get a dog.
Stealth Raptor
Smash Legend
^ you can do that with punishment. its how i was raised and i can tell you i dont "only obey" and i definitely think for myself lmao
timeouts teach kids that in the real world punishments are too lenient and you can get away with a lot <------- trufax
timeouts teach kids that in the real world punishments are too lenient and you can get away with a lot <------- trufax
SupaSairentoZ7℠
Smash Hero
Kids are way too spoiled now.
Pikabunz
Smash Hero
Not all kids are bad. :o
Words of wisdom to live by.Kids are garbage. Best solution is to not have them in the first place.
Some of SA have experienced first hand how spoiled my brother is.
Ussi
Smash Legend
:| I want kids, in the future of course.
If my kids put me in rage mode, they getting a beating. I'm just hoping they won't though. There are sometimes were a beating is what will get the message through.
I agree with stealth, too lenient if you go with timeouts. That's too easy to get over.
If my kids put me in rage mode, they getting a beating. I'm just hoping they won't though. There are sometimes were a beating is what will get the message through.
I agree with stealth, too lenient if you go with timeouts. That's too easy to get over.
~Radiance~
Meow-Meow, Choco-Chow
case studies dunt show evidence kthxbye
BacklashMarth
Smash Lord
The people performing the studies obviously weren't beating the kids right
Leaf.
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I give my little cousin a dog treat when he's good and beat the **** out of him when he messes up a chaingrab.
He will NOT drop chaingrabs.
He will NOT drop chaingrabs.
KayLo!
Smarter than your average wabbit.
It does take a unique kind of skill, not even joking.The people performing the studies obviously weren't beating the kids right
Ussi
Smash Legend
Yea, you have to be terrifying and instill fear like the kid feels so helpless that he/she doesn't even think rebeling is an option
Roller
Smash Legend
Extinction bursts so strong tho. =o (YEAH. I took Comm 111. get@me. *****.)
Also, I taught you to keep trolls from getting to you. By punishing your negative behavior... With more trolling.
Case study. WA BAM.
Urban Menace
Smash Journeyman
yeah like, you gotta hit em but at the same time say what you need to say on each hit like: DO(smack) NOT(smack) EVER(smack) DO(smack) THAT(smack) EVER(smack) AGAIN(smack) etcetera
Stealth Raptor
Smash Legend
Before people jump on me as a child beater, if I was insane enough to have a kid' I would show him the right thing to do, why its a good thing etc etc and if at that point he still disobeys, spanking time. Won't go so far as to break skin or seriously injure, but the only reason why I'm not a ridiculously spoiled kid still struggling with autism was because my dad was hard on me when I needed it. I loved timeout, I could play games in my head all night long lmao
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Neutral on the debate.
Don't know if I want kids or not.
Thinking not.
Don't know if I want kids or not.
Thinking not.
~automatic
Smash Legend
I don't know if I want a kid or not. That's something you have to figure out with your mate/partner.
That's what I do with my dog, lmao.
KayLo!
Smarter than your average wabbit.
Kids are only good for one thing: taking care of you when you're old and decrepit. It's basically long term insurance, except the price is waaaay too high imo.
^ Lol @both of those.
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Challenge accepted! In ten or so years, when I'm punishing my kid for whatever reason, I'll tell them that their beating was preordained years ago on the internet by a person they don't know. When they (hopefully) straighten up I will then find out how to contact you, call your phone, shout "**** YO' CASE STUDIES!" when you answer, and then abruptly hang up without saying who it is. Please try to be the one to answer said phone when this happens, otherwise I'll just feel silly.
~automatic
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If you're hostile to your kids they won't be able to ride a bike.
Stealth Raptor
Smash Legend
Yep sadly no more badges D:
KayLo!
Smarter than your average wabbit.
Yeah, they were way too hard to keep up with. (SN: Do y'all remember when there were post count badges? Ooomg the spam, lol.)
(SN: Do y'all remember when there were post count badges? Ooomg the spam, lol.)
Ussi
Smash Legend
You should just make custom badges for the main pikas like stealth's thunder god badge. Everyone be happy then
Stealth Raptor
Smash Legend
lolol the day people saw the post badge we got over twenty pages in an hour
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Meow-Meow, Choco-Chow
lol pheonix. but you dont need to say **** yo case studies........because i already said they arent usefull unless its single case design, and not trying to apply to genearl population.
i'm not gonna argue sides on it as to WHY its bad anymore. u can beat kids if u wana, just know if you do theres better ways to raise a child and you are being selfish for not looking to alternative methods based on a "it worked on me" mantra. break the cycle, teach your kids to love :/
anyways, can i have a psychology badge?
i'm not gonna argue sides on it as to WHY its bad anymore. u can beat kids if u wana, just know if you do theres better ways to raise a child and you are being selfish for not looking to alternative methods based on a "it worked on me" mantra. break the cycle, teach your kids to love :/
anyways, can i have a psychology badge?